Why Do I Sabotage My Relationships?

I’ve been an out gay man for over 30 years, I’ve a wonderful group of friends who’re both gay and straight. But, when I get into a dating routine with a guy,... Read more »

His Son Is Getting In The Way

I’ve been dating a fantastic guy, he’s middle aged, but fit and trim, loves hiking and very outdoorsy, however is also equally happy in a city cocktail bar. We started hooking up... Read more »

I’m In A Relationship With A Younger Man

I’m in a relationship with a younger man. I’m the older one. I love my partner to bits, however can’t always fulfil the sexual part of the relationship. I’ve been mainly a... Read more »

My Partner Was Unfaithful

My partner was unfaithful last year, he doesn’t know I know. I thought I could look over it, however I’m sure he’s seeing someone else again. He’s getting late in from work,... Read more »

I Feel Snubbed!

My younger brother had an enormous amount of financial assistance with a big wedding, big honeymoon, help with buying his house and even a car was bought for him last year, when... Read more »

My Boyfriend was an Escort

Dear GayAgonyUncle I’ve just found out that my partner used to be an escort to pay his way through college. One of my friends recognised him (not an ex-client thankfully) and when... Read more »

Dating Disasters

Dear GayAgonyUncle I’ve been single for so many years, I’ve just had a catalogue of disasters and keep dating the wrong guys. I’m on a host of dating websites and it just... Read more »

I keep being Unfaithful!

Dear GayAgonyUncle I keep stuffing things up in a relationship, I go on a big quest to find a good man, do the whole thing of wining, dining, plan futures together.  I... Read more »

Dumping my Useless Boyfriend

Dear GayAgonyUncle I’m a more mature gay guy.  A few years ago I was charmed by a much younger guy.  He was an art school leaver, had dreams and ambitions to work... Read more »

Middle aged, in debt & Single

Dear GayAgonyUncle I feel suffocated with life. I’m in my 30’s and still live with my parents. In lots of debt, in a dead end job and have just been dumped by... Read more »